'A.A. is NOT
A SELFISH program.'
How Bill W.
refuted that 'A.A. is a SELFISH program.'
....
Another correspondent complained directly that he had
been "disturbed to hear some A.A. speakers say, 'A.A. is
a selfish program.'" The co-founder's response was
eventually published in "The A.A. Way of Life":
I can
see why you are disturbed.... The word "selfish"
ordinarily implies that one is acquisitive, demanding,
and thoughtless of the welfare of others. Of course, the
A.A. way of life does not at all imply such undesirable
traits.
What
do these speakers mean? Well, any theologian will tell
you that the salvation of his own soul is the highest
vocation that a man can have. Without salvation -
however we may define this - he will have little or
nothing. For us in A.A. there is even more urgency.
If we
cannot or will not achieve sobriety, then we become
truly lost, right in the here and now. We are of no
value to anyone, including ourselves, until we find
salvation from alcohol. Therefore, our own recovery and
spiritual growth have to come first - a right and
necessary kind of self-concern.
From
"Not-God, A History of Alcoholics Anonymous", pp.
243-244, by Ernest Kurtz.
Principles
of the 12 Steps:
STEP: (The
steps are printed on pages 59 & 60 of the Big Book.)
1.
Surrender. (Capitulation to hopelessness.)
2. Hope.
(Step 2 is the mirror image or opposite of step 1. In
step 1 we admit that alcohol is our higher power, and
that our lives are unmanageable. In step 2, we find a
different Higher Power who we hope will bring about a
return to sanity in management of our lives.)
3.
Commitment. (The key word in step 3 is decision.)
4. Honesty.
(An inventory of self.)
5. Truth.
(Candid confession to God and another human being.)
6.
Willingness. (Choosing to abandon defects of
character.)
7.
Humility. (Standing naked before God, with nothing to
hide, and asking that our flaws—in His eyes—be
removed.)
8.
Reflection. (Who have we harmed? Are we ready to
amend?)
9.
Amendment. (Making direct amends/restitution/correction,
etc..)
10.
Vigilance. (Exercising self-discovery, honesty,
abandonment, humility, reflection and amendment on a
momentary, daily, and periodic basis.)
11.
Attunement. (Becoming as one with our Father.)
12.
Service. (Awakening into sober usefulness.)