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This site will do it's best to provide a place where alcoholics, addicts and others in recovery can come and seek out support in their continuing effort to remain clean, sober, or learn to live their lives without mind altering substances or other addictions.

We believe that it's important to attend meetings in your program, and talk and fellowship with others in recovery.  Get to meetings, get phone numbers (and use them) and get a sponsor to help you in the program to recovery.

 

I got involved with online recovery about 4 years ago, after being released from my 5th prison term, which was spent in CRC, (California Rehabilitation Center), in Norco, California. I'm 60 years old now, and this is me, and here is my story.............


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What is a 12 Step Recovery Program?

The 12 Steps

A Twelve-step program is a set of guiding principles for recovery from addictive, compulsive, or other behavioral problems, originally developed by the fellowship of Alcoholics Anonymous ("A.A.") to guide recovery from alcoholism. The twelve steps were first published in the text Alcoholics Anonymous ("The Big Book"). This method has been adapted as the foundation of other twelve-step programs such as Narcotics Anonymous, Overeaters Anonymous, Marijuana Anonymous, Crystal Meth Anonymous, Co-Dependents Anonymous and Emotions Anonymous.  Twelve-step fellowships have no opinion as a group on issues other than personal recovery. As summarized by the American Psychological Association, working the Twelve Steps involves the following.
  • admitting that one cannot control one's addiction or compulsion;
  • recognizing a spiritual higher power that can give strength;
  • examining past errors with the help of a sponsor (experienced member);
  • making amends for these errors;
  • learning to live a new life with a new code of behavior;
  • helping others that suffer from the same addictions or compulsions.

 

 

 

 

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How many people are addicted, or alcoholics?

Because of its legal availability and worldwide social acceptance, alcohol is an easy drug for users to abuse. Alcohol abuse, or alcoholism, is one of the most common and most costly drug addictions throughout the world. The majority of those who consume alcohol do so at least once a week, and, for most people, regular drinking on a social level does not create a dependency on the substance. There are, however, more than 17 million people (2004) in the US alone who do develop an alcohol addiction.


The National Survey on Drug Use and Health (NSDUH) supported by the Substance Abuse and Mental Health Services Administration tracks drug use those 12 years and older. 

  • An estimated 19.5 million Americans aged 12 or older were current users of an illicit drug in 2003. This estimate represents 8.2% of the population.

  • Over half(51%) of America’s teenagers have tried an illicit drug by the time they finish high school.

  • An estimated 71 million Americans reported being current users of a tobacco product in 2003, a prevalence rate of 30% for the population 12 years and older.

  • Marijuana is the most widely used illicit substance in this country. In 2003, 14.6 million people were current users of marijuana.

  • For the second year in a row inhalant use has increased in 8th graders with 17.3% reporting use at least once in their lifetime. These drugs are particularly dangerous because they can damage the nervous system even after a single use, and they can be fatal.

  • Prescription Drug Abuse Alert: Vicodin is one of the drugs most commonly abused by high school seniors. Nearly one in ten 12th graders reported non-medical use of Vicodin in 2004; one in twenty 12th graders reported non-medical use of OxyContin.

 

 

 

 

 

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What our members have to say about......
What IS... A 12 Step Program?


dunthatbefore says:

A program that will let a person learn a new way to live and cope without something to change them.
 
Yes, I believe I am normal as I can be.  I am not a bad person.  I did not understand that I was seeking gratification, help, coping abilities from booze.
 
The end of it all... I was not able to decipher right from wrong in a healthy way because I was consumed with my booze.  It had kicked my butt... physically and mentally.
 
So in the beginning .. it was to break the physical bonds on me.  Then a chance to learn to think without it... to make choices since I no longer had to drink.  I don't know about you , but I had to drink... just to get through a day.  Now I get through the day with being a decent human being.
 
I have thrown "perfection" to the side.  That is a killer in and of itself.  The only perfect thing I ever did was be a perfect booze hound.  I did that perfectly.
 
Taking the steps.. allowed me to be the true me.
 
Dun

SeattleJules says:

Countless programs have adopted the use of A.A.'s 12 steps, a course of action which brings about a spiritual awakening, also called a psychic change or personality rearrangement.  The main purpose of taking the steps is to establish and enlarge our spiritual life. There are many side-effects of "having had a spiritual awakening as the result of these steps,"  including no longer having to drink or use.  Taking the steps allows friends and family of addicts and alcoholics to enjoy some peace of mind, whether the other person is recovering or active in their addiction.
 
In addition to actually taking the steps, 12-step programs offer fellowship. Like many of us, when I got sober I dropped all my old using friends, and the bottle had been my best friend.  What would take their place?  In 12-step programs we find people who care, learn how to be a friend, family member, employee, from the example and support of those around us.
 
That's my definition of a 12 step program.  Of course there is a lot more to it, but the two parts--the recovery side, and the fellowship side, as well as the unity (service) are the essence of what makes up a 12-step program, I think.
 
hugs ~~ Julie

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